The Prayer Dojo

(Pre-Blog note from the author: I wrote this blog from the perspective of a martial arts instructor, or which I was one for several years. I hold black belts in two different disciplines of Tae Kwon Do: Chang Moo Kwan and Chung Do Kwan.)

Grasshopper (hoping you recall Kwai Chang Caine from the TV series "Kung Fu")*,

The concept of self defense utilized by a martial artist against a physical foe runs very parallel to the self defense techniques we utilize against our mental and spiritual foes.

The self defense moves of the martial arts disciplines use a combination of physical, mental and spiritual techniques to control and overcome the enemy, whom in your mind's eye is already vanquished and bested. For instance, in developing the skills to break and escape the holds of an attacker, the student is confronted with these important questions: What is an effort to successfully break a hold without knowledge? What is knowledge to break a hold without determination and heart and commitment? What is determination, heart and commitment to break a hold without practice? What is practice to break a hold without CONFIDENCE...Knowing the battle is won before it even begins?

Here's what I mean: In teaching you how to break a wrist hold, I will first introduce the idea of escaping an attacker's grasp by repeatedly demonstrating to you how it is done (knowledge). Then, I have you try it; does it work for you the first or second, or even the third time when you then try using the technique? Probably not! But as I work with you on things like how to get your wrist bone "just so" against the weak spot of the attacker's hold and how to leverage your body position to give you just the right application of speed and power to escape the hold and you did the maneuver over and over again (practice) so that muscle memory kicked in and you didn't have to think about doing it...you just do it; and as I begin to emphasize over and over how you need to be mentally and spiritually calm and focused so you can ignore the fear that is trying to grip your soul like the attacker is gripping your wrist and be able to explode with the right amount of knowledge, technique, heart and determination to not only escape your predicament, but also to carry through with additional techniques to prevent recapture (determination, heart and commitment), you get the idea, and it works every time, no matter how powerful the attacker. Then, an awesome thing happens: One of the most important elements of a warrior's, and a winner's, being - CONFIDENCE - kicks in, and you realize that no one will ever be able to grasp and hold your wrist against your will again! How many peoples lives could be saved if they knew and understood this one little technique of self defense?

Have you ever done a word search on the word "confidence" in your Bible? It's loaded with some good results, but the one I like the best is found in 1 John 5:14-15 of the NIV: "This is the confidence we have in approaching God: That if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us - whatever we ask - we know that we have what we asked of him."

You see, Grasshopper, the complete Believer, just like the complete martial artist, is one in body, mind and spirit, so that an attack against any one part is an attack against all three; likewise, the self defense against that attack involves the concerted effort of all three. Therefore, the method for dealing with an attack in any one realm is the same as for all three. In addition, the Believer has more than just his inner strength or some mystical force to call upon in responding to adversity...He has the almighty power of God dwelling in him. In fact, his "Sensei" (Instructor) actually dwells within him, providing knowledge of the attackers' weaknesses through prayer and His word, while bolstering his determination, heart and commitment though His indwelling Holy Spirit, and helping His student build confidence through providing daily "opportunities" to practice his "self defense" in preparation for the "real" (or major) attacks.

So head to your dojo (term for "martial arts studio") and practice those routines and techniques... They're guaranteed to break "icy grips"!

Facebook Church?

Last week I was driving down the road, minding my own business and listening (the radio was off), when an interesting phrase popped up in my head/spirit: Facebook Church. What was really intriguing about this event is that lately, for some reason or other, I've been really struggling to understand the whole concept of Facebook, since it and its counterparts have become such a pervasive part of our culture, in order to come up with ways to integrate it into my spiritual mission to spread the Good News of the Gospel and bring people into the Kingdom of God. Now, all of a sudden, I'm hearing "Facebook Church" and I'm wondering, is the word "church" in this case talking about a place we go to worship, or is it referring to the "real" Church, the Body of Christ...the population of Believers? And how does that tie into Facebook?

As a Baby-boomer, I grew up in an environment where one's privacy was paramount, or at least, guarded and protected...Accidental, or even intentional, expose' of one's private thoughts or goings-on was obnoxious, if not scandalous. Before everyone had clothes dryers, even hanging one's freshly washed laundry out to dry was exposing more about one's self and family then one cared to reveal. Here's a good example of the pursuit of privacy: The first telephone my family had was on a "party" line, meaning that 3 or 4 families were on the same phone line; the way you knew if a call was for your family was by the number of rings in each ring set. The problem, of course, was that anyone could "accidentally" pick up the phone and listen in on the other parties' phone calls; you didn't mind listening in to hear other people's conversations, but you certainly didn't want them listening in on yours and picking up on guarded truths about your private life! So you can bet that AT&T (Ma Bell) was pressured into working overtime to develop a network of private lines for everyone, and that customers quickly found the funds to acquire and maintain them. Even tapping someone's phone line became a crime, unless you had one of those infamous "Federal" warrants.

But then along came the internet and mobile phones, and an amazing inversion began to take place...almost imperceptibly at first, but now increasingly prolific. As phones became "unplugged," access to private conversations, albeit mostly one-sided, moved from kitchens, living rooms and bedrooms to restaurants, ball games and shopping areas. And as we "plugged" into computers and the internet, our sphere of influence and relationships moved from family, church, school and workplace to social network sites, chat rooms and forums, websites and, of course, "Tweets," with their seemingly infinite number of contacts extending into every region of the earth. But as this phenomena began to take hold and take over our lives, an interesting transition began to take place: As individuals, we went from being fish in a pond to being minnows in a sea, and that doesn't sit well with our basic human psyche. Whether we admit it or not, a basic need of all "normal" humans is to be recognized, accepted and appreciated (or some variation of those themes) by the members or potential members of our social spheres. (I think this is graphically illustrated in the explosion of tattoos, piercings and wardrobe anomalies we are experiencing in our culture these days in an obvious attempt to declare one's individuality.) As a result, the "amazing inversion" which I mentioned is taking place is this: Whereas we used to use privacy to maintain our individuality and attract other members to our "network", we now increasingly use the opposite, i.e., public exposure of our private things, to do the same thing!

Unfortunately, the insidious risk of this behavior is the trident of the Facebook phenomena: 1) We risk exposing ourselves to nefarious people who would do us harm; 2) Too little information about ourselves invites misinformation and disinformation; 3) Too much information about ourselves can unintentionally alienate those we are trying to attract. And yet, we accept the risk in ever increasing numbers, like moths hovering around a warm, open flame, in order to "connect"...and be "accepted"...and be "noticed." In fact, this urge is so strong that more and more frequently we hear in the news of yet another famous politician, pop singer, actor or other already public personality risking all that they are and everything that they have by placing the most intimate of photographs and videos of their private parts and and sexual activities on the internet without considering the inevitable outcome: That eventually someone will discover their post and expose it for all the world to see. Tragically, the ultimate dive into the pool of self-esteem results in nothing more than a leap into a dry hole cloaked in the mirage of one's ultimate importance...One that leaves us bloodied and broken and wondering, "What happened?" And yet, what is happening is clearly described in God's Word, the Bible; Matt 10:39 says, "Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it."

So how does all of this tie into the concept of "Facebook Church"? I still don't know for sure...I'm waiting and "listening" (praying, if you will) for some guidance from the Holy Spirit. In my own research, I came across an interesting article titled "How Facebook Killed the Church" by a Richard Beck, a Professor at Abilene Christian University [(http://experimentaltheology.blogspot.com/2010/03/how-facebook-killed-church.html) hope you can take time to read this article and resulting comments and let me know what some of your thoughts are about it], which convincingly argues that Facebook has effectively killed the traditional church, at least among young people; and yet, in contrast to this article, I bet you didn't know that the #1 Most Active Page on Facebook is the Jesus Daily Facebook Page by a physician named Aaron Tabor. Anyhow, I'm throwing all this out there because I would be very much interested in hearing your thoughts and suggestions on the matter, especially if you can help me to better understand the dynamics behind the whole "social network" thing. Believe me, your input would be greatly appreciated.